After going through Arts Camp, Pre-camp, O-Week and Arts bashes I& II,

I guess i've had qte an eye feast..considering all the really beautiful and happening people

I see and meet during these FOPs.

Even among my OG and close friends...there are many cute girls and pretty ladies, so theres no escaping this daily drudgery of drugging my soul whenever i see them in sch.

Well, honest but narrow reflections aside, i guess what i want to sae is that im qte glad i made a realisation that i must look beyond superficial looks and feel-good stuff if im seriously looking for a soulmate.

To be brutally honest, yes i've succumbed just like any mortal to being attracted to people for their looks and stuff..but just glad that ikinda pulled myself back from the brink in time.

Guess im truly sober now and the drugging effects of superficiality have worn off on me.

What seems to attract me most about a lady now is her intellect,how we can connect at a deep level during conversations. we can talk bout anything under the sun, whether it be the current fashion trend for bags, local politics,macroeconomic policies, ethics or even Calvin and Hobbes my fav comic.

Such a lady is hard to come by i guess. Somehow, i've only been able to meet less than a handful ofladies like that in arts. Well some may argue that i've just been making the 'wrong' type of frenz..or that i havent been able to sieve through my prejudices to bring the friendship to a level where such intricacies are visible. Lets just say i've tried my best and i will treasure those few gems i've found in this vast ocean